I have the problem of peeing at night, too, and when I cough, and sometimes just because. I did get the operation women can get that puts a strap under and raises the urethra. This holds some of the urine behind the strap, and what is forward comes out anyway. Then I have to sit to pee and have to wait for the cascade of urine over the strap and then flex my muscles to have it come out. This comes in little bits so urinating takes a really long time, and if I rush it and stand up, it all comes out. Just a different problem, maybe a bit better and maybe not.

Yep, it's a b---ch getting older, and I do want to continue to wake up in the dream a bit longer, even with the disruptions of an older body.